On top of that: an ADHDer, a social butterfly, always-ready-to-help kind of person, world improver, eternal doubter, overthinker, environmental protector, chocolate and pasta lover, big dreamer, idea generator, and single mom of two teenagers.

For them, I’m still working on building the home I want to give them. The house is livable by now, but there’s still a lot left to do — even though, according to them, it already feels like a real home.

My friends know I’ll always be there for them if they need me. And when it comes to nature and the world, I wish I could do so much more — so that generations after us can still enjoy this beautiful planet just as much as we do.

Since becoming a single mom, I’ve learned all too well how hard and expensive life can be. Even with a full-time job, the end of the month — and unexpected costs — can still feel pretty overwhelming. They say money doesn’t buy happiness, but if you ask me, it sure makes life a little easier.

I long for freedom. I dream of traveling far and nearby, discovering new cultures and coming home to my finished house — exactly how I imagine it: a home full of memories and coziness.

I crave a quiet storm in my mind because trauma and I go hand in hand. I’m grateful for many things in life, but I also carry a heavy backpack — some days it weighs more than others. But every day there’s something — big or small — that can put a smile on your face. Those are the moments you need to cherish, hold onto, and protect.

I want to show people that there is life after trauma. That you’re allowed and able to laugh every single day. And that even when life gets tough, there are always reasons to keep going. I want to help people who feel like they’ve fallen alone. I want to show other single parents that there is so much more to life than just being alone. That even in solitude, there can be so much joy, love, and adventure. Yes, it’s okay to miss your kids — but it’s even more important to take care of yourself, so you can be there for them and others.

I still have a long way to go in my own healing journey, but as long as you believe in it, there will always be a path forward. And if you get stuck, there will always be someone out there ready to help.

As a single mom or dad, you’re never truly alone. You have your kids — and that’s a kind of wealth that nothing else can compare to. It gives you an incredible strength, a power that makes you willing to do anything for them.

And that’s exactly what I’m going to do.

I refuse to sit back and feel stuck just because things are financially difficult. This opportunity crossed my path. I hesitated — but I took the leap anyway, all while embracing health. 

Are you ready to do the same?